I am single and have been into the BDSM lifestyle all my adult life and have grown to love it and enjoy the full expression of who I am and my sexual preferences.
My purpose is not to hold your hand, but provide a step by step process to follow when training a slave. Keeping in mind that the foundation of the BDSM lifestyle is the informed consent of the parties involved. Many questions will arise and I would suggest that you always error on the side of safety both emotionally and physically. Spending additional time to discuss issues in never a problem. You have to trust each other to move alone this patch together
I am turned on by the submission of men to my will.I am a natural dominant even though i do not act this out fully in public…i like to be a cat woman of some sort and love to be worshiped by powerful men. My major turn on would be telling my slave to carry out an action and him doing it without questioning. I am a one man woman, meaning I am not sexually promiscuous and will only commit to one relationship at a time. I do not mind if my slave is married we are adults and i expect him to keep this discreet at all times. I am not one to flaunt my BDSM beliefs in public. I reserve the right to control what level of communication i maintain with my slave prior to our first meeting. It is intrinsic that you agree to my rules. These explain the limits of this relationship and draw their boundaries. Without laws there can only be chaos and that is in fact a hazard in my dungeon. I expect my slave to be disease free and neat.
